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NSA with Ex...
by Anon
My relationship with ex- was great apart from what happened in the bedroom. So we broke up, and stopped contacting each other. Until, out of the blue, he asked me for some NSA fun, which I went for (and the bedroom stuff was better). And now I'm confused...
QUESTION: My Ex Contacted Me For NSA Fun - Now Confused!...
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Okay, in brief I met my ex last year - we had quite an intense and good relationship that felt comfortable from the start... apart from one area, the bedroom. He had issues that got worse through our six month relationship, and although the problems never concerned me that much, I tried to be supportive and was happy to work on it, but he was embarrassed and decided that although the relationship was perfect in every other aspect we should split up so this problem didn't get worse and we ended up resenting each other.
So we split up tried friends but it was too hard for both of us. I kept wanting more and for him to see his decision was a mistake, but he wouldn't change his mind, so made the decision to go 'no contact' again.
This I found hard to stick to, and would occasionally contact him - he always replied, but never initiated it!
This year I moved on and started dating someone else - very early days into it, I hear from my ex asking if I would like NSA fun (NSA: no strings attached) one evening. The offer was tempting so I spent a night with him. Things had improved in the bedroom area, but we didn't discuss our relationship, and I simply left in the morning.
Now I'm just not sure if I should get my hopes up over this one evening together? Or move on and accept it hasn't changed his mind. I am avoiding contacting him as to give him space, but it is doing my head in!...
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