My Husband, Desire, and I
I love my husband, but I'm getting tired of not feeling desire by him, and my thoughts of getting a divorce never seem to go away. Is it selfish of me to want more?...
"Relationships Q&A with You, Me and Paula Renaye"
QUESTION: Is It Selfish For Me To Want More?... MORE FROM Anon...
I'm having selfish thoughts...
I've been married for 10 years. We have a 9 year old son. And our marriage has never been great.
Throughout most of the marriage I've thought a lot about divorce
, but we have both matured over the years and so the reasons to get divorced become different.
My husband has grown into a very caring father and is helpful with taking care of the home.
He is a good man and deserves to be happy.
I don't feel we've ever really connected on a deep level but I've lived with it. Our relationship feels empty and I long to be with someone who desires me
There are many men out there who do but I don't believe my husband is one of them. I feel as though I've put so much effort into this marriage, that I'm spent - I don't want to keep trying anymore.
Should I just suck it up and keep going?
It's getting harder and harder to turn down those who do show desire ...