Feelings For My Ex

by Anon

My relationship question is this: why am I still thinking about my first love, when our 'not so great' relationship ended 3 years ago, and am I right to be getting married to my wonderful new man despite those thoughts...?

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QUESTION: I'm Confused About Feelings For My Ex - Please Help!...

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Confusion!...

It's been almost 3 years since my first love and I broke up. We had been together for 10 years, from a very young age. We had trust issues and we fought a lot because of it, then eventually we just grew further and further apart.

It wasn't a healthy relationship that's for sure.

Fast forward to about a year after this break up, when I met a wonderful man. I know I will never have any trust issues with this new man and it's the best feeling ever.

So we got engaged last Fall after being together a little over a year. I felt like I was the happiest girl in the world. And I thought that by now I would be completely over my first love, but I still catch myself thinking about my ex- on almost a daily basis.

I'm afraid that I'm not ever going to be able to get him out of my mind, and I feel it wouldn't be fair to my fiance if we get married.

What should I do?

 

 

About Steve M Nash

Steve is a recovering self-help junkie. It all started in 2001, when he found himself face to face with his unhappy, unsettled, and struggling self.

Enter stage left, self-help and spirituality books. Enter the road to recovery. Enter SBI! and the inspiration to create SelfHelpCollective.com

Enter Steve's love of great inspirational quotes

Enter (slowly) the realisation that the answer does not lie in a self-help book, or the words/actions of a guru, the answer lies within.

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