Are You Sure You Don't Have Anger Management 'Issues'?
Okay, what has the management of your anger got to do with self-help?
Y'know, if another person asks me that I swear my blood will boil it really will!... Ha ha. Actually, it is a good question and one I considered carefully as I researched this website. And this is what I came up with:
- Find anger tips & resources to help you control your anger
- Find movie clips from that movie starring Adam Sandler and Jack Nicholson
- Even discover a possible solution to your out of control anger...
Hmm, 'anger' is such a harsh, stern word isn't it - it's just not an upbeat topic at all, really. Well... the simple fact is...
If you're angry (and you spend a lot of your time being angry) then you're not happy!...
"Don't make me angry! You wouldn't like me when I'm angry".
Hey,
can you remember when you last got really angry? Share below!
...Not that there's anything wrong with anger, or being angry - annoying stuff happens to all of us, after all - but your anger does need to be managed.
And hopefully this page will at least point you in the right direction, and you might have the odd giggle too. (Do get involved, please, and tell us what you think!)
Anger Management
What the Self Help Collective says...
Well, this is what you'll find on the Self Help Collective website - anger wisdom of many, all carefully selected and commented on by me:
ANGER RESOURCES Find anger resources like programs, groups, courses - even activities - that can help reduce your anger TODAY!...
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ANGER TIPS It is important to manage your anger and not try to control it. That's just one of the anger tips you'll find on this tips page...
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ANGER MANAGEMENT MOVIE A look at film Anger Management and what we can learn about anger and how to deal with it. Includes YouTube film excerpts...
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STRESS MANAGEMENT TIPS You can reduce stress in your life right not by reading then acting on these tips: 'eat well, exercise often, stop procrastinating'... |
CONTROLLING ANGER There are 5 ways how to control anger listed on this page, but they boil down to suppressing, expressing and calming... |
ANGER SOLUTION? Self-hypnosis is a popular, positive way to defuse anger trances - anger management that WORKS. All via cheap mp3 downloads too...
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ANGER QUOTES "How much more grievous are
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CAN COACHING HELP? Would you like to be so okay with yourself that it never matters whether you get angry (or not) ever again?... |
Anger management - what I say...
When it comes to anger, I can't help thinking (as you'll soon see) about the Buddha's thoughts. He said some wise stuff in his time, but this really hits home for me...
"Holding
onto anger is like grasping onto a hot coal
with the intent of throwing it
at someone else.
You are the one who gets burned." – Buddha
(Find more anger quotes here...)
I know, for example, that
I don't do anger very well, right now - I'm not very
good at controlling it. I don't express
my anger at the right time and in the right place - I let it stew. For years and
years and years, too! And then I'm on the look out for the first thing 'wrong'
that that person does to me and blammo! - a mountain out of a molehill, an ugly
scene, tears etc.
Ugly, ugly, ugly and so easily avoidable... and all with just a little management of anger.
So I know that it
is me that suffers with this unexpressed anger and I am working on it (should
you be concerned). But I bet I'm not the only one with such a problem. I
reckon we probably all have anger problems and could all benefit from some
helpful anger tips from time to time, or even that anger management movie.
And I'm even more positive that we could benefit from stress management tips, too. (There really are lots of anger resources at hand here! )
And, perhaps, one of the best ways to manage your anger is to express it. And you can do that, express your anger, via the form below - tell us when you really 'lost it' and why...
They Knew They Were Angry When...
Click on the links below to read other visitors' anger mismanagement stories. (And please feel free to comment on them! But do remember, this can happen to us all! Thanks. :-) )
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