http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/self-help-blog.html Want to know what's new at SelfHelpCollective.com - then read our Self Help Blog! It keeps you up-to-date with all additions and changes to the selfhelpcollective.com web site including free self-help information, articles, tips, inspirational quotations... and your stories, too! Get involved, and subscribe here today! en-us self help Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:05:25 GMT Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:05:25 GMT selfhelpcollective.com http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/how-do-we-really-develop.html Or, can you ever read too many Self Help Books? One view... My personal story is involved with studying major religions of the world, in depth use of meditation Tue, 07 Feb 2012 16:05:23 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/fear-of-intimacy.html Another of the top 10 fears, fear of emotional intimacy can lead to lowered self-confidence, feelings of guilt and of failure and a life that is 'less'. But what does fear of intimacy look like, and how do you overcome it? Read on, to find out - includes 2 YouTube videos from The Fear Chronicles that discuss this deepest fear... Mon, 06 Feb 2012 18:47:55 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/21st-century-jedi.html Greetings, Human beings rarely realize that they are always in the right position in life; people are too busy focusing on their desires and when those Mon, 06 Feb 2012 16:03:06 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/olympic-hopefuls-life-after-death.html Olympic hopeful comes back after death... Just a few years ago I was planning on trying out for the Olympics in ski racing when I took a fall and died. Mon, 06 Feb 2012 15:47:53 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/my-low-self-esteem-signs8.html My low self esteem symptoms look like something like this... At work I struggle to focus and I'm really hard on myself if I don't reach all of my goals Mon, 06 Feb 2012 15:24:59 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/poem-if.html "If you can keep your head when all about you..." That's how Rudyard Kipling's If poem begins. And what an inspirational poem this is. How different the world would be, if men (and women) followed these inspirational rules for life. Well read on and see what changes you can make to your world, today... :-) Mon, 06 Feb 2012 12:36:06 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/me-and-my-boyfriends.html I love my ex-boyfriend more than my current boyfriend. What should I do about it, if anything?... Relationships Q&A with You, Me and Paula RenayeQUESTION: Sun, 05 Feb 2012 16:31:39 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/boyfriends-commitment-phobia.html I need help in my on-off relationship with my boyfriend; I need him to commit to our relationship as I want a family and time is running out for me... Sun, 05 Feb 2012 15:58:35 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/monthly-marvel-2012-february.html Monthly Marvel Online: 07 Inspirational Quotes About Making Mistakes...In this online edition of The Monthly Marvel, I talk about an inspirational quotation Sat, 28 Jan 2012 16:17:14 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/self-help.html Visit this selfhelp page to find the following self help resources: my favourite books (reviewed), authors, articles and websites, as well as inspirational quotations & tips on self growth and motivation!... Mon, 16 Jan 2012 09:48:50 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/fear-quotes.html What is the worth of any life, or love, when it is overcome by fear? The truth is, fear is everywhere, as revealed by these inspirational fear quotes, covering a wide range of subjects. Hopefully these carefully selected quotes on fear can serve to guide you away from fear and towards love - for that is what you are! :-) Mon, 16 Jan 2012 09:48:45 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/anger-management-movie.html This is Hollywood's attempt to discuss anger management, anger management groups, and the support you get from those groups. The Anger Management movie attempts to answer the question, what is anger management. How well does it do? Find out at The Self Help Collective and leave your comments too... Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:26:55 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/personal-goal-setting.html Setting personal goals requires action! And what better place to take action than your very own personal goal setting page for all the world to see! It's all about smart goal setting so write your smart goals here! How to set goals? In short... BEGIN WRITING GOALS! Sun, 15 Jan 2012 14:32:17 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/monthly-marvel-quotes.html Listen to me talk about favorite quotes in my monthly marvel videos - famous inspirational quotations that move you and me, both. These Monthly Marvel quotes can help us all live happier, more fulfilled lives - where acceptance is the norm - but only IF we take actions. Come join in, why don't you... Sun, 15 Jan 2012 14:13:07 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/assertiveness.html Discover what assertive behaviour is all about, via assertiveness training and other resources that show you how to be assertive. This is an important skill to develop and master for ALL of us! Start your journey now!... Sun, 15 Jan 2012 12:38:00 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/link-to-us.html Please spread the word about SelfHelpCollective.com - *the* guru-free self-help website - by linking to our site from yours. Whether you were inspired by the inspirational quotes, our pages on happiness and fear, or you've contributed to the site directly - use whatever reason you want to link to our site. You'lll find instructions here that make it easy for you to link to us. Thank you kindly. Sun, 15 Jan 2012 12:19:40 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/personal-growth-tools.html Your personal development growth is assured IF you visit this personal growth tools page! How do I know this? Well, I share with you an ultimate set of self-help tips, for one thing, AND some personal development resources that help you put those tips into action. Yes, the A-word is present on this page. Dare you find out more!... Sat, 14 Jan 2012 10:18:46 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/your-story.html We can all learn from the struggles (and successes) of others - that's what I believe, anyway. Well this is the place where you can share 'Your Story' - tell the world about the difficulties in your life and how you overcame them (if, in fact, you did). Come on down and share... with the Self Help Collective! :-) Sat, 14 Jan 2012 10:18:39 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/communication-skills.html A single web page on all you need to know about communication skills? Now that is good communication! Actually, there are hundreds of websites discussing communication and thousands of self help books too on the subject. So why isn't the message geting across then? Why do most of us still find it difficult to communicate effectively? Well... Fri, 13 Jan 2012 18:40:56 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/daily-inspirational-quotes.html Find the best websites and ezines for free daily inspirational quotes here... You'll also receive a daily inspirational life quote from the Self Help Collective too - the self-improvement website where you are the expert, if you want to be. Come on down now and share your knowledge, and be inspired by a daily quote for your troubles... Fri, 13 Jan 2012 17:19:11 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/huh.html Find all the inpspirational videos, stories, poems and inspiring quotes that didn't fit anywhere particular on SelfHelpCollective.com all listed here. ( Huh? ) Stories like Desiderata, and The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer. And The World's Strongest Dad video plus that incredibly moving video by Dr Randy Pausch. And if you know of an inspiring resource not listed here then do get in touch with us - thanks! :-) Thu, 12 Jan 2012 16:43:45 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/fear-of-rejection.html Whether you're simply interested in being more successful with dating women (or men), or you'd simply like to get more out of life, this fear of rejection page is for you! It covers the psychology and physiology of rejection fear - one of the most common fears - and shows you that it's all in the mind. And, overcoming this fear is all about facing it and accepting it. And it all starts here... Thu, 12 Jan 2012 16:26:04 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/funny-inspirational-quotes.html Are the best quotations always the funniest? Do famous quotes that make you laugh make your day? Are you a fan of free inspirational quotes and poems. If so, then why are you still reading this? Click-on-down to our funny inspirational quotes page - hand-picked by me! - and smile at the wit and wisdom of others (and know that these people are a lot cleverer than you will be ever be - hee hee!)... Thu, 12 Jan 2012 10:22:36 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/family-inspirational-quotes.html "We never know the love of our parents for us till we have become parents." Not all the quotations on family by Henry Ward Beecher are that postive, but I'm sure you'll find some family inspirational quotes to suit, at the Self Help Collective... (I hand-picked them after all!) Thu, 12 Jan 2012 09:48:54 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/common-new-year-resolutions-7.html So you want to find a new job, do you? One where people care? I see. And all that's been holding you back is what, then?... No, there's no need for common new year resolutions to change your job - you can do it any time. And the fact that you need a new year to make you change only tells me that you ain't goin' nowhere baby! Yep, you're most likely NOT going to achieve this new year goal (prove me wrong!)... Wed, 11 Jan 2012 10:48:36 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/common-new-year-resolutions.html New year resolutions come round, er, every year it seems. And so do the excuses why we don't end up doing them. Well, this (hopefully amusing) page of common new year resolutions lists some of the main reasons why you - yes you! - will fail again this year to act on your resolutions! Thankfully, via free inspirational quotes and other helpful 'can do' resources, this year might just be different for you. Come on down and find out, eh!... Wed, 11 Jan 2012 09:57:47 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/his-lying-is-breaking-us-up.html My boyfriend lies to me about his drinking. All I want him to do is stop lying, rather than stop drinking, but now he feels pressured by me so much so Tue, 10 Jan 2012 17:59:40 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/is-he-cheating-on-me.html I'd like some help with my relationship with my man, especially as it seems to be being played out a little on Facebook. I'm suspicious of his contact Tue, 10 Jan 2012 17:48:02 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/long-distance-relationships.html I'm looking for some long distance relationships advice, specifically how to prepare for my relationship becoming a long distance relationship. Can anyone Tue, 10 Jan 2012 17:32:57 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/goal-quotes.html Setting goals is important if any of us is to achieve anything significant in our lives, and these famous goal quotes are a great place to start! Find famous goal setting quotes from Ted Turner, Zig Ziglar, Mark Victor Hansen - even the likes of Nietzsche has his say! So take a look at these motivitional achievement quotes and inspire yourself today... Fri, 06 Jan 2012 16:20:09 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/self-esteem-quotes.html Can you improve your self-esteem from simply reading an inspirational quotation? Hmm, maybe not, but these self esteem quotes can help, for sure. After all self help quotes 'help', or at least the quotations I've hand-selected. Take a look and see what you think. Only the best inspirational quotes listed at The Self Help Collective (a collection of tips, articles and resources covering the main self-help categories like communication skills, self esteem, and even success). Thu, 05 Jan 2012 09:25:26 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/self-hypnosis-downloads.html Brief self hypnosis guide explains why self hypnosis is a safe, powerful way to reprogram your mind. Yes, self hypnosis downloads can help you quit smoking, boost your self esteem, overcome public speaking fear and lots more, all via self hypnosis mp3s or cds. Includes reviews of recommended online self hypnosis stores. Find links to hypnosis FAQs, too... Wed, 04 Jan 2012 18:10:41 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/sbi-self-improvement.html What's the link between self help and personal growth when it comes to using SBI!? Well, I believe that SBI! (or Site Build It!) - the 'web business-building' software service - is personal development in action. SBI! gives you step-by-doable-step access to self improvement that quite literally transforms lives. Read more here... Wed, 04 Jan 2012 10:47:42 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/beauty-and-low-self-esteem.html Success And Good Looks Get You Nowhere... I'm successful in sales, bought my own home on my own and turn plenty of guys heads when I enter a room but Tue, 03 Jan 2012 18:23:28 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/self-improvement-ideas.html Trust Your Gut And Find Your Passion is Lynn Robinson's article providing self improvement ideas that work. See if you agree with Lynn that life's too short to read (complicated) self-help books, that improving your life is much simpler than that. And let us know what you think too... Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:36:04 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/steve-maraboli-inspirational-poems.html Empowered Living internet radio host Steve Maraboli is not only famed for his inspirational words, his inspirational quotes, but he's also penned some poems - some Steve Maraboli inspirational poems, to be exact. And I've been given permission to reprint Dare to Be, and the equally inspiring Why Not You? Click here to read, and enjoy!... Fri, 23 Dec 2011 15:05:01 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/interpersonal-relations.html I discuss ways to improve your interpersonal skills in text and in video - all are sensible tips to help your interpersonal relations. That means relationships with family, friends, work colleagues, your partner, children - all can benefit! Learn how here, and check out the amusing video too... Thu, 22 Dec 2011 09:32:59 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/home-based-business-success.html What has self-help got to do with home based business success? Well, earning an extra income with a work at home business that *works* has got to be one of the best self help solutions of our time, hasn't it? Well I think so, and as Self Help Collective is my own 'work from home' baby... :-) Wed, 21 Dec 2011 10:00:33 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/joe-morris-inspirational-story.html Joe Morris's inspirational story revolves around love - he was lucky enough to find the love of his life early in life and now family is his absolute joy! Mon, 19 Dec 2011 16:35:30 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/poem-the-invitation.html "It doesn't interest me what you do for a living..." - that's how Oriah Mountain Dreamer's poem, The Invitation, begins. A poem that has inspired millions - this fantastic inspirational poem is reprinted in full (with permision) so that it can inspire you, too. Includes links to Amazon.com should you wish to buy Oriah's book. Hope you enjoy... Wed, 14 Dec 2011 18:09:38 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/poem-do-not-go-gentle.html "Do not go gentle into that good night" is considered to be one of Dylan Thomas' finest works - an inspirational poem, indeed! Hope you enjoy it, and the YouTube video which includes a recital of this 'go gentle' poem, and images of Dylan Thomas himself... Wed, 14 Dec 2011 18:09:36 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/developing-a-positive-attitude.html Create a positive attitude? How do you do that, then? Well, you could do a lot worse than listen to Gary Miller's Developing a Positive Mental Attitude wisdom (as voiced by me). Gary believes that it's important to create a plan, set goals, and monitor results. Above all it's about using your mind (and exercising your body helps too). Developing a positive attitude is possible and this page shows you how... Tue, 13 Dec 2011 12:00:09 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/anger-management-tips.html It's important to manage your anger and not control it. That's what Trevor Johnson says with his Tips for Anger Management wisdom, shared by me in a YouTube video. This applies to those who 'lose it' all the time to those who never get angry - to all of us, then! See if you agree with Trevor on this anger management tips page, and let us know what you think too... Tue, 13 Dec 2011 10:03:06 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/my-doubts-and-insecurities.html I am in a great relationship with a GREAT man, and yet I cannot let go of his past - the past he spent with his wife, and the past that existed after her Mon, 12 Dec 2011 17:13:17 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/self-help-articles.html Find carefully selected self-help resources as featured on the Self Help Collective. Free self help information that I think really will aid your self help improvement - or your money back! ;-) Do let us know whether you agree or disagree with our choices of self help articles... Fri, 09 Dec 2011 09:12:03 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/inspirational-business-quotes.html Find hand-picked inspirational business quotes (teamwork quotations, success, etc.) and inspire yourself today. Only the best inspirational quotes listed at the Self Help Collective (a collection of tips, articles and resources covering the main self-help categories like communication skills, self esteem, and even success). Fri, 09 Dec 2011 09:03:38 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/positive-attitude-tips.html "It's important to start to control your thoughts." That's more or less what Karen Wolff says about developing a positive mental attitude and keeping it. Karen knows that a positive attitude to life can simply evaporate at the slightest thing, so she provides some positive attitude tips (of a Godly nature, I admit) to help you keep your more natural negative tendancies away. See if you agree with Karen here... Fri, 09 Dec 2011 09:03:28 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/self-improvement-advice.html Wanting to improve yourself is healthy and positive but not if it only means reading about self improvment (and becoming addicted to finding new things to read about). Instead, the key is to take relevant and timely action with what you read - a little at a time. That's my self improvement advice for you, anyway, and you'll find more such advice here for you to ACT on!... Thu, 08 Dec 2011 12:11:41 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/body-image.html "Our bodies are a reflection of our spirits." That's what Elsabe Smit says in her article called, 'Do I look fat in this?' Provocative stuff. You'll also find YouTube videos on body image, my thoughts on this toxic subject, and maybe even your thoughts will be included too - why not get involved, today!... Thu, 08 Dec 2011 09:34:36 GMT http://www.selfhelpcollective.com/definition-of-happiness.html The age-old 'meaning of happiness' question is answered here on this definition of happiness page. I think. So, how to define happiness - a true, authentic happiness? Maybe it's an emotional state characterized by feelings of enjoyment, pleasure, and satisfaction or maybe Elaine Sihera's "What is happiness" article provides us with a better definition... Wed, 07 Dec 2011 16:10:58 GMT