...And how many of these fears do you suffer from?
Hey, you get to choose from fear of flying, fear
of public speaking, fear of heights.
Or if those types of fear don't do
it for you - bit too common - how about one of those strange fears like fear of
clowns or fear of flowers?...
You think I'm joking, don't you? I'm not! The human race is cursed with a wide range of fears, as revealed below,
that truly does say a lot about us as a species.
Awwh, who could be scared of these lil critters?
And you'll see what I mean
when you look at this list of fears - 33, count em! - that I've prepared for you.
And
it makes me wonder: are you free of all of these fears? Wouldn't it be
great if you were, if all of us were. Maybe one day, but for now - ladies and
gentlemen, boys and girls! - I present to you the 33 most common fears according
to Self Help Collective (* See note(B))...
(Oh, as always, I'd love
it if you got in touch. Please do share your thoughts!)
Most
Common Fears
Most common fears - what this list of fears says...
So
welcome to my lighthearted look at our most common fears. Yes, I'm sure these
fears cause many of us a lot of suffering, but I think it's important that none
of us forget that other common fear: fear of laughing at yourself.
So take
a look at this list of fears, and have a little chuckle if you can!
I'd
love to crack a joke about this fear but it's so pervasive, and so limiting. I'll
just pull a sad face... :-(
"Love
is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is
the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts...." --
Marianne Williamson
The
fancy name for this fear - well, you just couldn't make it up, could you? (Well
I couldn't!)
22.
Fear of clowns
Coulrophobia
5
Is
this just a fear of unfunny people, or fear of red noses and big feet?
23.
Fear of falling
Basophobia, Basiphobia
4
Another
innate fear. One of the few. Why do we all dream of falling, then, I wonder?
Wheee!
I never want to wake up! Never!
24.
Fear of change
Neophobia
3
A.k.a.
fear of anything new.
So I really hope someone suffering from this
fear hasn't chanced upon all these new fears....
25.
Fear of germs
Mysophobia
1
Cough,
cough, sneeze! Swine-flu anyone?
26.
Fear of music
5
This
must be an awful fear to suffer from. Imagine not liking music. Fans of [Insert
name of pop band you hate here] don't need to imagine, eh!
27. Fear of
doctors
Iatrophobia
1
I
think this is fear of what Doctors can do to us and/or what they can make us do
to ourselves.
(Or maybe it's the white coats that they wear?)
28.
Fear of crowds
Agoraphobia, Enochlophobia
2
Got
to admit, that as soon as I 'feel' there are too many people nearby - like in
a large mall, or at a music concert - I feel a strong urge to leave. How
about you?
29.
Fear of being touched
Haphephobia,
Aphephobia...
2
Again,
not a nice fear to have. Especially if it means that you never get touched!.
30.
Fear of open spaces
Agoraphobia
2
Same
as fear of crowds, apparently. Hmm, I think someone's messin' with me 'fancy dan
' names, here- these fears can't be the same. Can they?
The
33 most common fears
a la Self Help Collective (*See note(B)). Do
you suffer from any of this list of fears, then? Let
us know!
Related
to fear of abandonment - just the opposite, though.
32.
Fear of girls
2
Ooh,
I'm not sure I should comment on this fear, I'm really not. So I won't! (Phew!)
33.
Fear of thunder
Brontophobia
4
A
'loud noise' fear I think, and another innate fear.
And,
to summarise, for you all here is that list of most common fears
again, all nice and neat...
Summary of Most Common Fears
01.
Fear of flying 02. Fear of public speaking 03. Fear of heights 04.
Fear of the dark 05. Fear of intimacy 06. Fear of death, dying 07.
Fear of failure 08. Fear of rejection 09. Fear of spiders 10. Fear
of commitment 11. Fear of flowers 12. Fear of driving 13. Fear of
dogs 14. Fear of dentists 15. Fear of snakes 16. Fear of needles 17.
Fear of being alone
18. Fear of water 19. Fear of god 20.
Fear of abandonment 21. Fear of long words 22. Fear of clowns 23. Fear
of falling 24. Fear of change 25. Fear of germs 26. Fear of music 27.
Fear of doctors 28. Fear of crowds 29. Fear of being touched 30. Fear
of open spaces 31. Fear of engulfment 32. Fear of girls 33. Fear of thunder
34.
Fear of looking at lists of fears?
'MOST COMMON FEARS'
NOTES:
(A) I grouped these fears into various types. And those
types of fear are the following:
1. Pain
Fear
2. Relational Pain Fear
3. Self-Loathing Fear,
and
4. Innate Fears (i.e. fears we were born with). And then I added...
5.
Strange fears, for those odd fears that I could not easily explain!
Of
course, if you disagree with my types of fear then please do let me know! I won't
bite, promise! Or if you have any other comments, for that matter. You can contact
me about these fears!
(B)How did I come
up with this list of common fears?
Well... I used a keyword research
tool, that's how. I simply determined the number of searches people made on
the major search engines, and ordered it accordingly.
I actually used a tool
with the snappy name of Brainstorm It! don't you know - that comes as part of a suite of internet business-building tools collectively known as SBI! - and my list is ordered
by what is known as 'Value Demand'. (And I talk about SBI! on this SBI! self-improvement page, should you be interested!)
So, the list of fears above derives from the most
common SEARCHES for fears. Okay, I admit that it isn't that scientific,
but it's still an interesting list, nevertheless. No? And if you have a
better list of most common fears then I'd love you to share
them with me!
Overcoming these Most Common Fears...
It's
interesting to note that the majority of these most common fears are not innate; i.e.
we have learned to have these fears. Which means the good news is that we can
learn to not have them.