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Emotional Intelligence -- What is EI,
and How Do You Increase It?

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Experts stated that EI is the most important form of intelligence in the workplace...

That's what Sandra Thebaud says in her article on EI, anyway.

And she goes on to fully discuss what EI is all about.

You'll also find some more general online EI resources here...

some EI/EQ tests...

and even an article on how you can increase this intelligence.

Could you ask for more, I ask you?... ;-)




Emotional intelligence - what I say...

Ooh, what do I say about EI (or is it EQ?)! Well, I can clearly see that Sandra Thebaud is a big fan. She extols the virtues of having a high EI by claiming that such people are:

  • Wonderful motivators with a genuine and sincere enthusiasm.

  • Agile at goal setting and [able to] direct a group towards achievable and rewarding project conclusions.

And these people also have a "unique ability for problem solving and decision making". It all sounds great, doesn't it, but how do you increase your EQ (should you need to)?

Well, Tara Rummell Berson wrote an article called Five ways to boost your EI, and in it she advises that you do the following:

  1. "See" your feelings in full colour
  2. Cultivate your curiosity
  3. Pinpoint the situations that shake you up
  4. Play the "silent movie" game (and guess what strangers are thinking)
  5. Practice the what-if scenario

Okay, that's helpful - thanks, Tara! - but what do I say about this subject?

Is it just another way of talking about emotional health?

Can you improve your EQ by taking an online course? (It's offered by HigherAwarness, as part of their membership program costing US$19 per month. Many other development resources included too.)

Am I intelligent emotionally, even? Well I like to think so but then I know I can also be an emotional idiot at times, too. And you?

Hmm, I'm not sure about this thing called EI , if I'm being honest - that's why I got Sandra Thebaud to comment - so I will save any further thoughts until I am emotionally intelligent enough to do so! Ahem.

Er, don't hold your breath eh! ;-)

What about you? What do you think about EI? Please contact us and let us know!




What is Emotional Intelligence?

EI - what Sandra Thebaud has to say...

Emotion and intelligence are two terms that are combined more as time passes. Many people have an innate ability to utilize the strengths of human nature to further success. Individuals with a high level of emotional intelligence have an insightful understanding of themselves and others. If a situation invokes stress, the person with a high level of emotional intelligence has an instinctive ability to console and comfort.

Individuals with high levels of emotional intelligence can easily empathize with others. They see the situation from another perspective without stress. While some people are born with abnormally high levels of emotional intelligence, it is a trait that the majority of people can learn. There are a myriad of benefits to EI encouragement. Individuals with high emotional intelligence are noted to achieve better results in projects. They can develop greater professional networks and achieve higher productivity.

Experts today cite many benefits to having a high level of EI. EI is usually measured by using four different areas of ability. The first level is that of general perception. What emotions are others feeling? People with a strong EI can detect the presence of emotion in themselves and others. They can often spot minor emotional problems that might lead to serious issues in the future.

The next area of measurement is that of using emotions. High EI often indicates a unique ability for problem solving and decision making. These cognitive traits are beneficial in the work environment. Experts have stated that emotional intelligence is the most important form of intelligence in the workplace. It is a natural process of motivation and problem management.

The third area of measurement in emotional intelligence is that of just understanding emotions. Human communication involves many forms of non-verbal language. People with high EI are capable of reading this emotional language in others. They are not intimidated by complicated relationships and can easily mediate disagreements. High EI individuals can coach positive emotions in co-workers and associates. They are wonderful motivators with a genuine and sincere enthusiasm. The are agile at goal setting and can direct a group towards achievable and rewarding project conclusions.

The final area of testing for EI is that of managing emotions. This is the ability to bring out the most positive and constructive emotions in everyone. Those with the ability to manage emotions can often overlook their negative feelings and maintain focus on goals and the necessary positive emotions to achieve them. EI-oriented individuals can gauge their own reactions and behaviors. This helps them see what influence their behaviors have on others before acting.

Emotional intelligence is a practical necessity in any office setting. The intensive self-reflection involved opens communication with others. High EI individuals can achieve much more through self awareness of goals and limitations. Because so many professions involve team atmospheres, emotional intelligence is a productive and beneficial element to the workplace.

People with high EI are frequently motivators. They are capable of understanding their personal moods and drives. They are equally capable of understanding the same qualities in others. They can urge fellow employees or teammates to strive for the best work possible. A person with high emotional intelligence has a strong ability to control or change negative feelings. They naturally think prior to behaving on an impulse.

Entrepreneurs are frequently gifted with a strong amount of EI. They have a zeal for their work that goes beyond money or status. This helps them realistically judge themselves and successfully interact with clients. EI allows an individual to break down major achievements into simple steps. This goal setting can have a positive impact on any developing industry.

General technical or mechanical intelligence will remain a valued trait in the business world. It is not the only strength examined today. A high level of emotional intelligence can improve the work experience and the work place.

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Emotional health and intelligence - what these recommended resources say...

Well, emotional health and intelligence is a very big subject indeed. Far too big for a single webpage, that's for sure. And that's why I've included some of the best online resources, below. Knock yourself out, eh! ;-)

* EQ
Based on Daniel Goleman's original EI concept.

* More self-help tests (including EI/EQ tests)
This page on SelfHelpCollective.com lists a variety of self-improvement tests, including those aimed at improving your EQ

* Higher Awareness' Emotional Development Program
Their emotional development and self healing program allows you to overcome negativity, enhance self esteem and improve your self awareness. I'm a subscriber to Higher Awareness' Take the Inner Journey daily newsletter and find it 'spiritually nourishing' to say the least.




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